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I wish my moderate Republican friends would simply be honest. They all say they’re voting for Romney because of his economic policies (tenuous and ill-formed as they are), and that they disagree with him on gay rights. Fine. Then look me in the eye, speak with a level clear voice, and say, ‘My taxes and take-home pay mean more than your fundamental civil rights, the sanctity of your marriage, your right to visit an ailing spouse in the hospital, your dignity as a citizen of this country, your healthcare, your right to inherit, the mental welfare and emotional well-being of your youth, and your very personhood.’ It’s like voting for George Wallace during the Civil Rights movements, and apologizing for his racism. You’re still complicit. You’re still perpetuating anti-gay legislation and cultural homophobia. You don’t get to walk away clean, because you say you ‘disagree’ with your candidate on these issues.

Pulitzer and Tony winning playwright Doug Wright (via ilikeyourwigjaniceabloodymess)

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. And this is mine, put in better words than I ever could. 

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I am handsome, intelligent, and capable. I am worthy of being loved and I can damn well accomplish anything I set my mind on.

I must remind myself of this daily, even when it’s difficult to believe.

I’m often asked by colleagues what’s the secret. Many scientists who are superb practitioners of their field claim that they’re no good at explaining science, but I just don’t believe that. I think there’s only one secret. And that is, Don’t talk jargon. Don’t talk as you would to colleagues. Instead, talk as you did to yourself at the time when you yourself didn’t understand. You have to explain to people what’s true in ordinary language, not technical terms. You have to respect the intelligence of your audience, but remember that they haven’t had the advantage of the same technical education that you have.
Carl Sagan, Psychology Today Interview (1996)

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LOL THIS!

Douchebags need to realise that relationships and sex are not parts of a transaction. I treat my other half to meals out and movies and other little gifts because I enjoy treating her. NOT because I expect anything back. 

I’m pretty sure that’s exactly what they are 

I know because I watch anime so I’m an expert

Since when does Friendzoning mean “No sex”?

^What Felix said. I wondered the same thing last night when I first saw this, but I thought maybe it was just me. I think this is a misunderstanding of the term ‘friend zoning.’

Here’s a little Guy Talk 101: ‘friend zoning’ has little or nothing to do with sex, unless you’re with a bunch of douche bags/pickup artists (same thing IMO). There’s this unspoken rule when guys are in groups that you’re not supposed to talk directly about your feelings. When a guy says to his friends, “She put me in the friend zone,” it’s roughly the equivalent of saying, “She rejected me (and I’m quite sad about it).” It also doesn’t mean, as I’ve seen suggested in other places, that he doesn’t value this particular girl as a friend. If a guy has feelings for a girl, even if she’s his friend and he loves her as such, is it really that unusual for him to be disappointed that she doesn’t reciprocate?

And when said dude’s guy friends start saying shit like, “Forget her, bro,” and “Whatever man, you can do better,” it’s not because they really have anything against the girl. Again, guys in groups generally don’t talk about feelings directly, so this is the equivalent of putting an arm around their friend and saying, “Hey, cheer up. Plenty of fish in the sea. You’ll find the right girl eventually.” Just… without actually doing that. BECAUSE WE’RE MEN AND HEAVEN FORBID WE HAVE ANY FEELINGS. So we have to be tough and abrasive around each other. I’m not saying it’s right, but that’s the way it is. There you have it. Guy talk demystified.

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